voice & sexuality coach
voice & sexuality coach
The expression of your voice and your sexuality are deeply connected and by exploring this connection, you will uncover your own authentic powerful voice and self.
Through vocal practices you get direct access to your core sexual centres which allows you to clear stuck energies, blockages and pain you may have as a result of traumatic experiences or unhelpful beliefs.
The results are profound. Here is what can open up for you when you do this work:
I grew up on a farm in the deep south of New Zealand. Singing always came naturally to me even though I didn’t come from a particularly musical family. It was a strong form of self-expression for me in a family that wasn’t comfortable with expression.
From the age of 13 I was clear that I wanted to be an Opera Singer and was very single-minded in pursuit of this goal. I did a Music Degree in Voice and also travelled to Manchester, England to do Post-graduate study in Voice. I performed on stage in New Zealand, Australia and the U.K and spent many thousands of dollars studying with different teachers and institutions.
The missing link in retrospect was being seen in a more holistic way. Whilst living in England in my late twenties I became more and more interested in Sound Healing and attended several workshops and festivals with leading edge facilitators at the time.
This also led to exploring many types of bodywork and healing over the past 20 years including various Massage trainings, most recently Kahuna Massage trainings Level 1 to 5, Myofascial Release, Embodied Counselling, Shamanic Practices, Sacred Sexuality including several Ista trainings 1,2 and 3 (International School of Temple Arts), a 9 month Womb Apprenticeship in 2016 with Janine McDonald, Tantric De-Armouring and is a Certified Sexological Bodyworker. I have a powerful Voice which channels sound on a cellular level. I continue to explore and journey with the deepest parts of me so that I can also hold a deep space for others to do so.
Somatic sex bodywork supports individuals, couples and groups in learning to direct their own erotic development, to learn more about their bodies, sex and sexuality, or work through sexual issues or concerns.
Teaching involves a variety of instructive modalities, including breath work, foundations of touch, active receiving, mapping, scar tissue remediation, and Orgasmic Yoga coaching.
Can be done in sessions or for longer periods over weekends or several days.
Cost : 160 for initial 90 minute consultation and 120 an hr for subsequent sessions.
Yoni is the sanskrit word for vagina, meaning ‘sacred space’. General massage to warm up the body, relieve tension and allow a deep state of relaxation. Yoni mapping involves internal mapping in the yoni (vagina) to release tension and increase pleasure. For someone new to this work, it is recommended sometimes to have a few sessions deepening into your body before any internal work.
Why would someone come for this kind of session?
Kahuna massage is a therapeutic massage technique based on the teachings and practices of the ancient Hawaiian Kahunas. The word "huna" is an amalgam of two words: 'hu' is a word for the male energy and 'na' is the female energy. In the language of native Hawaiians, "huna" means "secret knowledge" and a master practitioner of any of the huna arts is known as a "kahuna
What is Kahuna Massage?
Kahuna massage differs from other types of massage therapy in two important respects:
It is often said that Kahuna massage is a holistic natural therapy designed to heal the body, mind and spirit.
Benefits of Kahuna Massage
Kahuna massage is said to stimulate the lymphatic, circulatory, respiratory and digestive systems, so may be of therapeutic benefit for a variety of disorders, including irritable bowel syndrome, asthma and headaches amongst others. It is said to be particularly beneficial for a number of emotional problems, including:
$100 an hr or $140 for 90 mins
Working on your singing and speaking Voice using breath, sound and movement. I listen to you speak or sing and identify any blockages in your throat and body and help you to gain more openness, freedom and clarity in your speech or song. Can be done over Skype, allow an hour.
I have 25 years experience as a Classical/Opera Singer with years of Vocal Training myself in NZ and in the UK (post-graduate study)
Working with scar tissue using Castor Oil. In a world where feeling your body is not a high priority, the loss of sensation from scar tissue is accepted as normal. Sexological bodyworkers have noted significant loss of sensation and erotic impairment due to scar tissue. The good news is that massage on the scar tissue--especially with castor oil--can bring back sensation. This is for any scars on the body from Operations including Caesarean scars. We always hold a ‘story’ around our scar which often has never been shared intimately and bought presence to and it can be deeply healing to bring a Voice to.
Organic castor oil will soften up scar tissue quickly and break up collagenous adhesions faster than other oils. It contains ricinoleic acid, which has anti-inflammatory properties. I suspect it also has properties that break up the collagen bonds in scar tissue. Castor oil also seems to mobilize lymphocytes.
Mobilizing lymphocytes will aid the body in reducing inflammation. Inflammation drives the formation of adhesions, AKA scar tissue. Passive castor oil packs allow sufficient amounts of castor oil into the interstitial tissues to complete the process started by manual scar tissue work. I have seen miracles happen with castor oil during massage of scar tissue, including inter-vaginal application and massage- Ellen Heed
Allow for 90mins-2hrs for first session and up to 90 minutes thereafter.
Cost $160 for first session and $120 for subsequent sessions.
I offer a blend of Swedish massage, Trigger point, Hot stones, Mirimiri, Energy work and Myofascial release depending on what you would like to experience. I can also incorporate sound into my bodywork.
Cost: 100 for an hr
An area where men and women can hold a lot of shame or see as dirty. In fact when we become curious and explore this area it can be a huge source of pleasure and emotional release and it can help us be more relaxed generally (don’t be such a tight-arse).
I start with a general massage warming up your body. Then I do some general massage around the genital area and buttocks and allow the body to open before any penetration. The finger is introduced into the rectum through the anus and the prostate gland is gently massaged (men) Massaging a man's prostate releases tremendous amounts of emotional and physical stress. Coupled with stimulation of his penis or "lingam", massaging the prostate can be extremely pleasurable and healing. Along with the genital areas, the anus is connected to and interwoven with millions of delicately sensitive nerve endings. Mapping can also be done inside the Anus to release tension and explore. I can also do just external Anal or Rosebud Massage/Mapping
Allow 90 mins. Cost 160